FORGOTTEN FACTOR IN FORNICATION

The  difference between adultery and fornication is simply that adultery is sexual misbehavior in a case where one or both parties are married to another, while fornication is sexual misbehavior between two unmarried people.

Because adultery occurs where at least one marriage exists, it is regarded by the law as a violation of the legal contract of marriage.

Fornication, however, violates no legal contract. For this reason, people tend to regard more lightly than adultery. Since fornication involves two consenting individuals, it is unlikely for most people to even consider that a third party has been offended. As a result no proper repentance takes place.

Even when we consider just the lustfulness of the act itself, we find it easy to argue that after all it is natural and biological, and besides, the older moral codes have changed. But again it is the grievous wrong done to another that God wants to uncover. And in spite of what people think, He considers fornication to be as wrong as adultery.

The fornicator will have to repent as deeply as the adulterer if he/she is to have peace with God. 

Ooooliskia wapi?

Alright so now let's be honest. Who is paying these people who go spreading rumours out there. There are some people who have that passion. They do not miss anything to say especially about others. Yaani you are just seated somewhere and somebody somewhere is spreading lies about you that you are in another place that very moment doing one or two things.

The most recent ones are getting out of their profession. I was hanging around with a friend somewhere and took some selfies, this guy took the pics in his status. Guess what? Messages started flowing, 'namjua huyo jamaa....' people who we haven't meant before started talking about me. 'huyo ndio anaoa?' that was the big question. Sasa, if you guys know everyone and what they are doing doing why do you have to ask. Anyway that is the group which at least are running grapevine professionally. The other group ni wale tu wanaongea ata hawajui ni nini wanaongea. Someone tells me 'naskia umeoa' and I am like, can you listen to whoever is telling you correctly.

I know people might be wishing others well but when it comes to sharing such an information I think it's good to verify the same before putting any of the parties in an unnecessary situations. "naskia umeoa wake wawili..." Wee ooooliskia wapi? Ooooliskia wapi????

Real Christmas

It seems most of the people go nuts when they hear Christmas. Does it mean that they do not know what exactly Christmas is and what is expected of them or are people just ignoring things? Christmas is simply meant for personal reflection and giving back to the less fortunate. I mean a Messiah is born and you go take wine and stop misbehaving around, who are you celebrating, is it the same Jesus Christ people are celebrating His birth or others are just having their own at the back of their minds? Let us celebrate this Christmas in style by giving it to Christ and looking after those needy. We need to give this season its real meaning.

DO YOU WANT TO SAVE?

You might have thought of anything from citing the title which is very healthy but I want you to look unto this in another perspective or angle of life. When we talk of saving most of us tend to look into the monetary side of it, right? Did you know that life or nature is something that has always been giving us an option to save. Yes, an option to save what we have been going through. Saving what happened yesterday or any other time specifically in the past. Every new day comes with it's own ideas, scenarios, events name them. Oftenly, some of us have the tendency of carrying yesterday's burden to the day thereby creating more worries and troubles day in day out. Do we really have to carry such a burden in our everyday life? It could be sounding something impossible but yet again life is giving us that option every single day. DO YOU WANT TO SAVE? You have the option to save and carry on whatever happened yesterday or delete and start afresh. Life is there to be enjoyed.

Don't wait

Most of the times we tend to think of positive things that could be of much help to our lives and community unfortunately there is an 'element' that coming in between that normally convinces us that it's not the right time. If you haven't suffered from this thing I call an 'element' you must be very successful in everything you are purtaking as far as life is concerned. Just visited a friend, this gentleman is actually selling potatoes, imagine 'viazi karai' and the guy is very comfortable and happy. He told me that he is making money more that he could have made if employed at a private institution like a school within. This actually made me realise that I have been sleeping for a very long time and, yes am out.

Are you still waiting for that white collar job? Waiting for a job advertisement? It's time you focus, be positive in everything and see yourself making it in life. "Kuomoka ni sasa"

CHURCH or NO CHURCH???

Most people tend to reason out that it's not a necessity to go to church. The common reason being those going to church behave the worst compared to the ones who are not close to the church.

Again, some of those church goers seem to look unto those not going as unholy and unworthy beings. I don't want to say who could be right but what exactly are we supposed to look at, the church or good deeds or both. What your take?

Social Media Advocacy

Kilifi young leaders led by the popular Youth organization known as Fimbo Youth Initiative took they campaign on matters of Kilifi Health Department. This energetic army did not hide its disappointments on the Health Care facilities that have stalled for long yet do get allocations in almost every financial year.

They tried to share our their views and are hopefully waiting for a positive outcome as they termed to the failure as a violation of Human Rights since every single person is entitled to the Right to Health Care.

If you thought internet was just something people are wasting their time in then you need to think otherwise and join the trend #AilingHealthKilifi